I don’t like this at all- parenting is a lvniog alternative as well. What I really hope they meant by it was that adoption is the only other lvniog alternative. You should actually call them on it- because it does make it sound like parenting your own child is not a lvniog alternative. Abortion definitely isn’t lvniog- but parenting is. Maybe if you asked them about it, they would change this statement- because if I was a birth mom, it turn me off, and if I was a man and woman looking to adopt it would turn me off too.EDIT- and for those who say that it is not lvniog to give your child away to someone else, I have this to say- so if your birth mom could no way raise you, you think it would be better to abort? I am an adoptee and also have adopted 2 kids- and since our 3 birth moms could not raise us, it very lvniog and selfless to place for adoption. If I got pregnant and could not raise my child, do you think I would sacrifice my child on the altar of abortion? NO WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!